More About Me – Well You Actually!
Before you start dating seriously it is worth having a think about who you are, what you like to do, what your ambitions are and where you would like to be in say five years time.
If you do this then you will have a really good idea of who you are, because not many of us know exactly who we are. If you sit down now with paper and a pen and list ten things about you and what you want I expect like most people you would get stuck at number five or six.
There is a reason for getting stuck at number five or six and that is simply that we don’t really know ourselves very well, what it is that we want and indeed where we want to go, and if we don’t know those key elements of our lives how on earth are we going to be happy with a stranger who is trying to get to know us?
We are not are we?
At least we have a head start on the poor unfortunate person trying to get to know us, we have had the whole of our lives so far to get to know ourselves.
So the time you take to really understand yourself, what you want, who you are and so on is a very important few minutes in our lives.
The questions that you should ask yourself to discover who you are, are not unlike the ones an employer would ask oddly enough when you think about it and so if you do this little exercise you will also have the answers to what might occasionally be some difficult to answer questions at a job interview.
When you have these answers you will know a little more about yourself and the direction that you should be heading in, and then you will be able first to talk or write freely about who you are and what you want and of course you will have a much better idea about the type of partner you should be looking for, and don’t let anyone confuse you we all have our ‘types’ people who will make the perfect partner or as close to perfection as us humans can get.
You may also enjoy the journey that bring you to self awareness and self understanding, it is an interesting one because of course it is all about you.
